If you haven’t read the introduction to the series, then do so now. If you have, welcome back and let’s begin. For the first post on the BYSY series, we address the question WHY? Why do you want to get married? Is it because everybody is getting married? There’s so much pressure? You want to … More BEFORE YOU SAY YES: WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED?
You’ve met a good guy, it’s a whirlwind romance, you love him, he loves you, you think surely nothing could go wrong, I mean there is love and love conquers all, he’s ready to settle down and so are you. One day, after a wonderful dinner in a well-orchestrated theatrical moment (maybe alone or in … More BEFORE YOU SAY YES
Where do I even begin? Yes, Mz Gidi is single again and this is one of the toughest posts to write because I have struggled with coming to terms with my new reality. When I started the blog, I wanted an avenue to express myself on being single; the ups and downs but mostly the … More SINGLE AGAIN
Researchers have discovered that low levels of loneliness are associated with marriage, higher incomes and higher educational status, so this means that loneliness does not care about your tati billion in akant, BellaNaija-esq wedding, or cacophony of degrees (channeling my able Patrick Obahiagbon). Last week, we defined loneliness from the dictionary, clinical and personal perspectives … More DEPRESSION AND DATING: HOW DOES LONELINESS AFFECT YOU?
It’s another long weekend yayyy us! Here are a few events happening in Lagos this weekend.
What does loneliness mean to you? Loneliness is a word a lot of us have used at one point in our lives, a popular word that can sometimes be misconstrued or used inappropriately. Loneliness, although a common phenomenon, is often overlooked and people can sometimes be unaware of the intense ways it impacts on them … More DEPRESSION AND DATING: DEALING WITH LONELINESS
Yesterday Mz Gidi (a.k.a Sheila) had her very first Instagram Live Session…woohooo!!! Our friends at LagosMatchMaker asked me to talk on Finding Relevance as a single person. It was actually fun and I want to thank each and every one of you that tuned in to watch. All is not lost for those that could … More FINDING RELEVANCE AS A SINGLE PERSON
Tito and I had a very interesting conversation a while ago about dating in Lagos and specifically what makes your time together, a hangout or a date. We obviously had varying opinions, personally, I believe once a woman has crossed 30 a certain age, all hangouts become a date, but that’s just me. Here’s the clip … More HANGOUTS VS DATES