You’re of the ‘right’ age, you keep being harassed because in Nigeria that’s what we do, you are responsible with a fairly decent job, you’ve been for every prayer service and every asoebi train and somehow you just can’t seem to land a date or even if you do, you can’t find your happily ever after.
The idea of getting professional help seems strange to you, especially in Nigeria. As Nigerians, we’re so used to meeting people at church, weddings, parties, through friend hookups and distant relatives and we’re still not sure of online dating.
Dating, like other parts of our lives, is often neglected and no one ever admits that they need help. You think you don’t need a matchmaker, it just seems too desperate, and we have been taught to get advice from friends, family, and pastors.
Advice is different from getting a matchmaker and dating coach. Anyone can give you advice or match you but not everyone can coach you from start to finish. Coaching address the causes of the symptoms and helps you to make powerful changes quickly so you choose the right kind of spouse. This is where S.I.G.MATCH comes in.
So how do you know if you need a matchmaker or a dating coach? Here are 5 reasons why
- You don’t have a problem going on dates; you just can’t meet the right one for you
You’ve done online dating or you meet people the old-fashioned way, but nothing ever seems right. You have tried to ‘manage’ because good men and women are hard to find and those haven’t turned out right.
You know the right person is out there, but you just can’t figure out where!
- You’re too busy to date or you just don’t like crowds
You’re too busy or you’re too high-profile to put your picture online on some dating site. Clubbing isn’t for you and you hate the desperation of meeting people at weddings. This is a great alternative because it’s discrete and private and focused entirely on you!
- You want to be equally yoked
By that, I mean you want to meet someone who shares your values and maybe your faith. You refuse to compromise who you are and what you believe just to say you found a partner.
- You’re back on the dating scene after a long time and you have no clue what to do
If you’ve been married before or were in a really long relationship you thought would lead to marriage or you’ve been out of the dating scene for a while, having to date again sounds like a chore and honestly, you don’t need the drama involved. There is another way! You don’t have to do it alone.
- You find yourself in a pattern of dating the wrong ones
You’re probably dating a wonderful person, perfect on paper and all but you know deep down that this relationship isn’t the best for you. You don’t know if you should stay or you should go and the thought of making a decision scares you! Or, maybe you see a pattern of dating the same kind of person. Every relationship is like dejavu and you end up feeling hurt, confused and disappointed in the end.
Matchmaking or dating coaching does not mean something is wrong with you. It means that you know that the kind of person you want to meet, date and marry is not what you’ve been experiencing on the dating scene and you’re ready to stop wasting time.
If you’re ready to transform your love life then register today with S.I.G.MATCH. and be one step closer to having your happily ever after.