This is an age-long question that many women have asked. We just don’t get it and when we try to answer for the men, we end up mixing it all up so it’s good to see a guy finally answer the question …sorta

In his vlog series, Just tryin’ to help a sista out, Eniola Abumere enumerates 8 things men look for when they’re ready to settle down. They include:

  • A woman who brings peace
  • A woman who can cook
  • A discerning woman
  • A woman who understands her man
  • A woman with good personal hygiene
  • A woman who is nurturing
  • A woman who can adapt and whether life’s storms
  • A woman who is a lady in the street but a freak in the bed

Here’s what he has to say:

There you have it, do you agree or disagree? Let us know in the comment box below.



1 reply

  1. It is easy to generalise as if all men are the same. It depends on the life cycle of where the man is to determine which qualities the man will emphasise. In these day and age and depending on the needs a man may not necessarily want someone who can cook if he already has people who can cook for him or he eats out most of the time. But definitely every man wants peace in the house and is understanding and will stick around for better or for worse.


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