LOVE, ABUSE AND REVENGE PORN?

Last week I was cracking my head thinking of what to write for this week when Rob Kardashian blessed the world with good material. This story could offhandedly generate more stories for bloggers than the “twitter President” Donald Trump does on a daily basis.

And so it began

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Where do I even start from? So Rob like play like play started dating Blac Chyna, to be honest, I’m not sure what else she does except being an Instagram model and Tyga’s baby mama, I think she has a hustle somewhere but please correct me if I’m wrong (don’t count being a vixen). They got engaged after three months of dating and of course, she was pregnant.

The whole relationship seemed like a joke to many except Rob. I am not saying three months is too short but the history of Chyna VS the Kardashians was not one to be overlooked. In case you didn’t know the story, let me put on my aproko hat for you, so in summary Chyna, Kim and Khloe used to be really good friends, she introduced her then fiance and baby-daddy, Tyga to the family and somehow the Kardashian baby sister, Kylie, who was 16 at the time started dating Tyga.  Because blood is thicker than water, the Kardashians stuck together and Chyna was on her own…until two years later.

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Two years after, Chyna starts dating Rob Kardashian and before you know it they are engaged and showing their one-sided love on their own reality show. This girl tried every trick in the book to milk this family, from engagement to trying to trademark the name, Angela Kardashian but we all thought maybe there was love somewhere in there and were even buying the idea of their union more when their daughter, Dream was born.  

Then last week happened, Rob posted nude pictures of Chyna, cheating-receipts (pictures and a video) of Chyna on Instagram tagging her and she even liked one of her naked pictures, the babe no send at all. The internet was buzzing, Twitter, Instagram and Rob versus Chyna debates, it was a bit overwhelming but at the same time I was slightly irritated

 

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Relationship hell is the worst, right? For anyone who’s been there — and I know I’m not alone — there’s nothing more heartbreaking than the sickening feeling of something warm growing cold, something sweet going sour, something compassionate turning contemptuous, something supportive becoming destructive, and your source of love and healing becoming the cause of toxic damage. Suddenly, what seemed to be working so well is not, like the shiny car you drive off the dealer’s lot that collapses down the road in a heap of broken parts. I am sure Rob Kardashian was struggling with how everyone kept saying Chyna was up to no good with “but I was just in heaven, how did I get to this infernal place?”

Some relationships are troubled from the start — and we know it. But the deeply dysfunctional ones, the ones we get subtly and unwittingly enmeshed in that have the potential to shatter our lives, tend to start off smoothly and are often dreamy at the beginning. That is exactly how Rob and Chyna started out; all like a “Dream”.

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I have tried to have a good opinion or even empathy for this woman, but I haven’t found it in myself to do so. Was Rob wrong for posting her nude pictures? Absolutely, but Chyna is no victim deserving of any empathy.

Why you say?

Well, I could never understand how love can go from loving to attempting to destroy a person. I know not all relationships are built to last but if you ever had any respect or love for the person, no matter how mad they make you, you will leave them alone.

Blac Chyna is a gold digger who planned her whole existence from Rob’s life but she wasn’t going to leave without a huge payout on top her 18 years life insurance, sorry, I mean child support for the beautiful baby she has with Rob. So she decides to get various men into a bed she shared with Rob and had the audacity to allow those men wear his house coat, document it and send him her cheating receipts. Blac Chyna provoked Rob and yes his attentions were wrong but I bet most of us humans would have done the exact same irrational act, if not worse when pushed to the wall like so. 

The issue is not whether or not revenge porn is wrong (we all know it is), my perspective is purely based on the fact that a mean gold-digging woman took advantage of a man and some people are defending and praising her, but if the tables were turned, we would call it abuse. 

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Blac Chyna is NOT a women’s rights advocate and if you are one of those saying that then I am sorry for you. It is actually repulsive and upsetting how quick ‘cliché’ feminists seek to use every and any opportunity to talk about women’s right and turn a blind eye to how her actions led an emotionally hurt man to break the law.

Rob already has a history of depression, not that it is an excuse but he was emotionally abused further by Blac Chyna. We need to call a spade a spade and not be so biased about it as women.

Emotional abuse is the worst kind of abuse in my books and no one deserves it, either male or female. 

It is obvious that Robert Kardashian is an emotionally abused man who didn’t know how to handle his anger. In this case, the abused also became the abuser. 

Let’s discuss: –

Do you agree with me or do you think otherwise? What are your thoughts on revenge porn and abuse? Use the comment box below

Imarose

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2 thoughts on “LOVE, ABUSE AND REVENGE PORN?

  1. I agree with everything you have said expect that Rob abused Chyna. Rob reacted in anger but did not abuse her. Have you seen the story that there is a video of Chyna beating Rob with phone cable? I suggest you go and read it!

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