BEFORE YOU SAY YES

You’ve met a good guy, it’s a whirlwind romance, you love him, he loves you, you think surely nothing could go wrong, I mean there is love and love conquers all, he’s ready to settle down and so are you. One day, after a wonderful dinner in a well-orchestrated theatrical moment (maybe alone or in … More BEFORE YOU SAY YES

SINGLE AGAIN

Where do I even begin? Yes, Mz Gidi is single again and this is one of the toughest posts to write because I have struggled with coming to terms with my new reality. When I started the blog, I wanted an avenue to express myself on being single; the ups and downs but mostly the … More SINGLE AGAIN

HANGOUTS VS DATES

Tito and I had a very interesting conversation a while ago about dating in Lagos and specifically what makes your time together, a hangout or a date. We obviously had varying opinions, personally, I believe once a woman has crossed 30 a certain age, all hangouts become a date, but that’s just me. Here’s the clip … More HANGOUTS VS DATES

THE MYTH OF WAITING ON GOD

There’s an ongoing trend in Lagos, fellowships and prayer events are mostly attended by women. Single women who are all praying for different things but specifically on getting married. I’m talking intelligent, beautiful, accomplished, well-grounded women who only talk about understanding men, how to get married, finding ‘the one’, praying for their future husbands and … More THE MYTH OF WAITING ON GOD

ARE YOU DRAMA-FREE?

Ever asked someone what they were looking for in a partner and get ‘drama-free’ as one of the traits? Even a lot of online profiles and dating apps (cue in tinder) tend to have things like “no hookup and no drama please” in their bios, which usually makes me wonder what exactly it means to be drama … More ARE YOU DRAMA-FREE?