Men and women can be friends, as a matter of fact, I like that I have the ability to be friends with guys and girls at the same time. I guess growing up as a tomboy and having mostly male cousins around me taught me how to get along with guys, understand guy jokes, being … More HOW NOT TO BE TREATED AS ONE OF THE GUYS (as advised by men)
A few weeks ago, I was invited to the EbonyLife TV Moments’ roundtable, Girls Talk, to share my thoughts on having a checklist after a breakup. Watch and let me know what you think So what do you think? What are the right steps to take after a breakup? Should every woman have a checklist to … More THE BREAKUP CHECKLIST
Change is THE only constant thing…that’s quite a popular saying. As we grow older, our thoughts, opinions and ideas change. The woman I was 10 years ago and the woman I am now are 2 different people, however, regardless of experiences over the years, some things have remained the same. These things that do not … More #BYSYSERIES: ARE YOU STILL YOU?
I apologise for the break, Lagos life got the best of me but now I’m back so let’s kiss and makeup…*muah* Last time, I wrote on the influence of outsiders on your relationship and how the people with the most influence could be the ones with the most control. If you didn’t read it then, … More #BYSYSERIES: HOW IS S(HE) WITH MONEY?
I know what you’re thinking, like Aunty eskiss me, what’s the point of dating if you’re not ready to settle down but before we go ahead let me point out that dating is one of the often misunderstood terms. For some “dating” means being in a serious relationship with someone, whereas for others–like me, ‘dating’ is … More HOW TO DATE WHEN YOU’RE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN
It’s that time of the year again, that time after eating all the Christmas rice and chicken that you begin to plan subconsciously for the new year. New Year, New you…year of hitting the gym, saving more, investing more and so on. Soon it will be New Year’s Eve and if you’re like me you’ll … More 12 DATING GOALS YOU SHOULD TOTALLY CONSIDER IN 2018
One of the things that destroy relationships and marriages today is the influence of outsiders on the relationship. An outsider when it comes to a relationship/marriage is anyone that is not you and your spouse to be, that is father, mother, twin, best friend, sibling, e.t.c. as long they are not the ones you are … More #BYSYSERIES: WHO CONTROLS YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
I’m back again, after a short break last weekend. Actually, I was going to write on our next topic until I came across a post by SisiYemmie on Twitter. She started off with this Married women, if you had just 1 advice for a single female friend/sister what would you tell her? — SisiYėmmié.com 💛 (@Sisi_Yemmie) … More #BYSYSERIES: ADVICE FROM TWITTER
Growing up in a Christian home, the topic of being equally yoked in marriage always comes up. Usually, it’s in the debate for or against inter-religious dating and marriages, and 9 out of 10 times it is the main topic at every singles’ conference/fellowship/service… Being equally yoked goes beyond religion. Even though the term is … More #BYSYSERIES: ARE YOU EQUALLY YOKED?
One thing that is prevalent in relationships today is the thought that we can change our partners, after all: there are not enough men in the market, this one that you have found a man, you better hold on to him o It’s just youthful exuberance, he/she will outgrow it ….and so on and so … More #BYSYSERIES: ARE YOU THE MESSIAH?