I apologise for the break, Lagos life got the best of me but now I’m back so let’s kiss and makeup…*muah* Last time, I wrote on the influence of outsiders on your relationship and how the people with the most influence could be the ones with the most control. If you didn’t read it then, … More #BYSYSERIES: HOW IS S(HE) WITH MONEY?
I know what you’re thinking, like Aunty eskiss me, what’s the point of dating if you’re not ready to settle down but before we go ahead let me point out that dating is one of the often misunderstood terms. For some “dating” means being in a serious relationship with someone, whereas for others–like me, ‘dating’ is … More HOW TO DATE WHEN YOU’RE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN
It’s that time of the year again, that time after eating all the Christmas rice and chicken that you begin to plan subconsciously for the new year. New Year, New you…year of hitting the gym, saving more, investing more and so on. Soon it will be New Year’s Eve and if you’re like me you’ll … More 12 DATING GOALS YOU SHOULD TOTALLY CONSIDER IN 2018
One of the things that destroy relationships and marriages today is the influence of outsiders on the relationship. An outsider when it comes to a relationship/marriage is anyone that is not you and your spouse to be, that is father, mother, twin, best friend, sibling, e.t.c. as long they are not the ones you are … More #BYSYSERIES: WHO CONTROLS YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
I’m back again, after a short break last weekend. Actually, I was going to write on our next topic until I came across a post by SisiYemmie on Twitter. She started off with this Married women, if you had just 1 advice for a single female friend/sister what would you tell her? — SisiYėmmié.com 💛 (@Sisi_Yemmie) … More #BYSYSERIES: ADVICE FROM TWITTER
Growing up in a Christian home, the topic of being equally yoked in marriage always comes up. Usually, it’s in the debate for or against inter-religious dating and marriages, and 9 out of 10 times it is the main topic at every singles’ conference/fellowship/service… Being equally yoked goes beyond religion. Even though the term is … More #BYSYSERIES: ARE YOU EQUALLY YOKED?
One thing that is prevalent in relationships today is the thought that we can change our partners, after all: there are not enough men in the market, this one that you have found a man, you better hold on to him o It’s just youthful exuberance, he/she will outgrow it ….and so on and so … More #BYSYSERIES: ARE YOU THE MESSIAH?
Now that we have established why you want to get married, we can now move on to other important topics. Like How do you communicate? These days, we often mistake conversation for communication in relationships. When asked if we communicate, the first response is usually ‘yes, we talk about everything and anything’. I remember once … More #BYSYSERIES: HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE?
If you haven’t read the introduction to the series, then do so now. If you have, welcome back and let’s begin. For the first post on the BYSY series, we address the question WHY? Why do you want to get married? Is it because everybody is getting married? There’s so much pressure? You want to … More BEFORE YOU SAY YES: WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED?
You’ve met a good guy, it’s a whirlwind romance, you love him, he loves you, you think surely nothing could go wrong, I mean there is love and love conquers all, he’s ready to settle down and so are you. One day, after a wonderful dinner in a well-orchestrated theatrical moment (maybe alone or in … More BEFORE YOU SAY YES