Last week, we I, I’m using “I” here because you people abandoned me last week, not even one comment, is it good laidis??? I forgive you sha 🙂 Ehen as I was saying, I established last week that it is possible, even normal to have some sort of bitterness/resentment and maybe a teeny weeny hatred one kain feeling towards … More DEALING WITH RESENTMENT
What do you do when you feel resentment and/or bitterness towards your former significant other aka “The Ex”? Wow, you’ve never felt that way? Oh Great One, please teach us thy ways!! Okay, I’m sorry for faffing about but I am actually serious and also certain I’m not the only one who has had these … More I THINK I HATE MY EX
It’s important to realize why we feel lonely, because only then can we see how we might address it. It has taken me almost 3 weeks to write the final part in this loneliness series, and no it’s not because I was busy or lacked the words to write. Well, it is simply because I … More OVERCOMING LONELINESS
Last week, I was going through some of my notes and I stumbled on one of my many lists of questions to ask a dude. I’m not joking, I have different types of lists and this is the one I use to determine if a dude is worth going ahead with and also sift the … More 21 QUESTIONS
Researchers have discovered that low levels of loneliness are associated with marriage, higher incomes and higher educational status, so this means that loneliness does not care about your tati billion in akant, BellaNaija-esq wedding, or cacophony of degrees (channeling my able Patrick Obahiagbon). Last week, we defined loneliness from the dictionary, clinical and personal perspectives … More DEPRESSION AND DATING: HOW DOES LONELINESS AFFECT YOU?
Hello SIGs, I know, I know, I have been away for too long, well I have not been in the right place mentally and I knew writing could reveal emotions and feelings I was not ready to talk about, so I didn’t write. However, I am back and will have a new post on the … More WE FOUND LOVE IN A DISCO HALL
In the first part of this series, we established the fact that breakups can have a triggering effect on people who are coping with depression and if not well-managed can have a long-lasting effect on their mental health well-being. In this post, I’ll continue with a few more tips on how to deal with a … More DEPRESSION & DATING: HOW TO COPE DURING A BREAKUP (PT 2)
Breakups are hard and anyone that says otherwise should be asked to sit in a corner and think about their actions! Seriously though, it is hard and even harder if you have a history of depression or a mood disorder. Even when a relationship is no longer healthy or safe, breakups can be very painful … More DEPRESSION & DATING: HOW TO COPE DURING A BREAKUP (PT 1)
The response I have gotten from this series has been overwhelming! Imagine, someone made me cry when they shared how one of the posts helped them, I have been shocked to silence by the “Oh my God, I follow this series and I love it” comments and after the Single in Gidi Jazz & Wine … More TIPS ON DATING SOMEONE COPING WITH DEPRESSION
I’m back again with another post on our Depression and Dating series. Today I’ll draw from my experiences and also give some tips that I believe can help when your partner is having a depressive episode. As I mentioned in previous posts, dating while coping depression is a very tough mix but with the right … More DEPRESSION AND DATING: HOW TO DEAL WITH DEPRESSIVE EPISODES.